5 Things Women Want Every Man To Know

For as long as there have been bad boys there have been women who love them, or so the story goes. The truth of the matter is that women enjoy the appeal, the excitement, the danger and the challenge of these men – in laymen’ s terms, the fantasy is more appealing than the reality. Women want a bad boy for the honey moon period of a relationship but once this passes what they are really after is a man willing to change his ways in order to win their heart.

We have all seen movies glorifying the use of food in foreplay, be it a few strawberries and a can of instant whipped cream or a full on buffet complete with slices of exotic melons and a squeeze bottle of honey. While this might seen exciting and erotic the one thing you will never see in these films is a woman attempting to scrape chocolate sauce off a bedspread or wash honey out of her ear. While eating a grape from a belly button is a bit of fun, no woman wants to go to sleep and wake up to find herself stuck to her own pillow.

While getting all dressed up to go out to a nice, classy restaurant makes for a great and romantic date, it is not something most women want to do more than two or three times a month. The preparation for these nights out can take upwards of two hours, there is the outfit to choose, the shoes to match, the purse that suits the shoes, the nail polish the brings out her eyes and of course the hair. By the end of the evening her feet are sore and she wants to get out of that very sexy but not so comfortable dress. Once in awhile a woman just wants you to bring over a pizza and a movie and relax with her on the sofa with no high heels and zero pressure.

This will come as no great surprise to anyone, however men frequently overlook it during both dating and as the relationship progresses. Women may not like whichever particular sport you and your buddies are most passionate about, she may not even understand the rules – but that doesn’ t mean she doesn’ t want to be included. Even if a woman is going to be bored stiff, inviting her lets her know that she is important to you and you’ d like her to get to know your friends and share your interests. Inviting a woman to spend this time with you is akin to her seeking your opinion on her shoes – you don’ t have the least bit on interest in the matter, but she wants you to feel important.

Women want to show off the man in their life. He doesn’ t have to be a Johnny Depp look alike or a millionaire, he just has to make them feel special. A woman is never prouder than when she is with her man at any sort of social function and he says or does something to show his commitment to her. In some cases this is showing affection openly and at other times it is not getting involved in the often questionable “ man talk” that frequently occurs as the end of the night approaches and everyone has had a few drinks. A woman will never love you more than when your friends are discussing Angelina Jolie and you’ re too busy holding her hand to notice.